Respect me!

People do not respect me, for example, my boss does not respect me and my family not even my parents do not. I received this comment from some people.

Many times I heard that we need to talk to others to tell them that they are doing, not to respect us or those we love, is something we must solve talking or discussing it, but after a while I realized that sometimes works and others do not.

Upon reflection that sometimes works and sometimes not, I remain surprised how trusted a process that does not really work. For example when we have an iPod that turns sometimes and not others and do not know when it will turn on, which we conclude is that the iPod does not work, this does not have to discuss anything is something clear.

But interestingly in our relationships we can talk to others about who we respect ourselves or those we love and not always work, as the iPod, which shows that our system troubleshooting is wrong.

We have to find a more effective way to make things run forever. The solution to this problem lies in trying to find the root problem, which is the cause of causes to get the effect we want (respect), for this we need to look at that part of our life we ​​are not respecting others , most of the time we begin to analyze ourselves, we minimize things on our behalf and say for example "I respect everyone"

 or "just not that exaggerated," but the reality is that small actions we do trigger great results, remember that a small watermelon seed produces beautiful and giant watermelons.

So what should we see on that part of our lives we do not respect people in their conversations and interrupt, or when concentrated in an activity or working the interrupt or worse no reason to kill an ant without respecting their life because we craving ( do not fall at the end of blackmail and say "why does") all these activities are producing the disrespect that time in your life.

You can take your life with the responsibility you want, or bores you to do things that always work and create your new life or you're still a victim of your own actions in the end this is your life and no one can get.

The question today is Who're starting to respect?

GBY

Alfred