Your hard drive is not unlimited

Today I want to write about as pointless possessions when we have our mind hard disk becomes slower and this hinders us to have clarity and achieve what we are in this life.

Many of us, including myself, think that when we have material things we accumulate wealth, but that's not entirely true, you must learn to make things flow, so that you will keep coming better things, you have to do this consciously. If you have something for the last 6 months not using it and make it flow better find a better place for this, this is a very healthy practice and keeps us active and ready to play a big game and not give new expectations for to the everyday, you out of your comfort zone.

I know this for many can be viewed or heard as something very crazy, but if you analyze properly make much sense for everyone.

The Universe will return what you do, now you're going to get something, let it flow this in your life, you must take care that your emotion and intention are very powerful, with a high degree of generosity and desire to help others, so that you can send the universe signal HEY LORD UNIVERSE HERE I AM, this is important because what you give and how you give is what you receive in the future, and if you give it with anger and envy, the universe wise will provide you the same.

There is one exception, when you accumulate has a real sense and tried to help others, is like using an external hard drive, because this action exalt you more. But be careful not to fall into justify and keep a mental game in which you can say, well this "could" serve someone in the future and that's why I keep it, when in the background is a great attachment that you really need for the things and will not let you move on.

The question is when are you going to move everything you have not worn in 6 months? And here are going to benefit from your generosity and good intentions, giving you that we no longer use?

GBY 

Alfred

Best Communication

When we talk about communication comes to my mind to define what is communication? and being simple, communication is "be as one", both sender and receiver must feel oneself in thought, be on the same frequency and people to achieve being Present (here and now).

One of the secrets of good communicator of ideas is to start by being a good receiver thereof (listening). The best sellers are people with the ability to listen to achieve genuine communication set.

This is why we first have to go to the world of other people and interest for them to achieve ONE feel.

The problem is that many times people keep physical silence to hear what the other is saying, but the chatter in my head will not leave me alone and starts to send information, for example, to be with your partner "that is not true, things did not go well "or with a customer" I know what you need. "

In both cases when you do this, you're breaking communication because you're not being one (and eye, the other might not notice but I sensed or perceived), in fact, sometimes I have been asked in the middle of a conversation "I're getting attention?", probably most of us has this ever happened to us and break the line to communicate clearly.

It's not easy because often the murmur of your little voice becomes very intense and do not even detect automatically because you have lived "quickly trying to think the best answer."

In my experience and practice, when you manage to be present and silence the little voice to listen to others, manage to sell or talks wonders and relationships that make your career and your life, and create communicative Harmony.

Hey, are you listening?

If you're now here and now reading this, I am communicating with you as the sender, but if your little voice began with questions and ideas in the body of this reading, communication of these ideas will not get to you and there will be no communication.

The question is: are you here and now when someone tells you something?

Create great communication

I hope 

GBY

Alfred

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I Buy?

Someone asked me if I was a salesman, my immediate answer was yes, but in my head seller a question is what? Came, I started trying to analyze me and understand what was selling and what was selling.

With this play of ideas and conversation with myself began to make stronger and more effective (was talking to my own little voice) trying to understand what sold, after a few seconds I threw my little voice told me a few words and whispering in inside, "you see, the end did not sell anything" and for a second I accepted without testing their opinion, but seconds later I realized that she (my little voice) I had already sold the idea that I was not selling anything. What a moment of clarity to understand that the most difficult sale that I make to myself of my own ideas!

Even in these internal messages that my little voice and I was convinced that I do not sell anything, there had been a sale in which I accepted that sold nothing.

I realized that the power is within you and many things in this life have to do with selling, you have in your life your own beliefs, mental buttons or patterns that you have dominated for years and do you live in so Automatic (say my "zombie dad") and often you are aware of them but do not act and many more you realize NO.

So I decided to write to make clear that these sales can determine my actions in life, now the question is how many sales ideas, you do not want, has made you a little voice? When are you going to take control of the most important sale in life? The beliefs of your own!

I hope

GBY

Alfred

Celebrate the successes of other

When I ask people,  ask me or anyone else to me, if I'm happy when a contestant gets some success, or when a family member or close friend wins an increase or improvement in your life, the first answer is "sure, give me glad that I have achieved", but in doing an honest review in the privacy of my being I realized that most of the time did not have that clear and positive sense of joy, actually had a hassle.

So life put me off the solution, reading a book called "The Karma of Love" (Geshe Michael Roach) and asking others, I realized that most act like and say "of course I was happy, or that was crazy not to, he's my brother, son or friend ", but basically for most of us bother, this is much more common than you can imagine, so if you're reading this and you identify welcome to the club. Frankly you need a high degree of personal honesty to not deceive yourself and be honest about your feelings.

I know many reading this you are a little upset and feel observed themselves to make conscious that reaction, but in order to fix or change some attitude we must first recognize and thus able to approach and implement a solution.

Once I recognized that attitude is the secret surprise at the exact moment you feel discomfort for some positive (or even negative) thing that happens to someone. This is like playing catch the mouse, you must be very careful and patience to self-observe you, see the right time when the mouse hovers mustaches, do not punish or suffer to see you like, or start saying how bad you are for have that kind of thoughts, watching you as you are moving forward to help.

When you begin to feel discomfort observed coming from you, that the action or external act of the success or failure of the other comes from you, you are activating something you can control or adjust, takes a little time and practice, but if you make it fun can happen as me, in the middle of a board meeting or even, I hear something that activates the mouse out of the trap and I start to laugh at the stupid things I'm thinking and absurd jealousies and annoyances.

There is also a very powerful and fun addition. By the night when you get to your bed and after the turmoil of the day with stress, traffic problems, relax. Treat yourself 3 minutes sacred joyful and successful seeing. This reads very easy but it costs a lot of work on it to give us 3 little minutes of joy, this aid directly to not feel the discomfort or unhealthy desire for those around us, and ensure that during your sleep your brain change the program of the day no very positive (sometimes), by one powerful to keep you alert your life.

The question is how can you ensure you do 3 minutes of exercise every day?

I've only given you the suggestion to practice this but the action and decision to do so is yours alone

GBY

Alfred

You want to control everything?

Many people feel a need to bring all things under our control: at work, on a project at home with family or in our relationships. We have the little voice in our  head "if I check or do not control me, they will not do well. "

This may have a point, but most people are this way do not realize that there is an inner need for recognition in them, their ego grows both the extent of believing that no one else can do better than or equal to they even say "which ego? wish and help me." The funny thing is that in a high percentage if you will miss the activity or work in less than two weeks someone else to do it and you would be surprised how many they could do as well or better than you.

I do not want to tell you that you become irresponsible and now just leave everything, I want you to know is that if you start to understand that as you loose, teaching and educating others, your life will improve. Uppss! but in everyday life many people in their jobs or businesses say "no, how do you think I'm going to teach my secrets to others? not crazy, imagine, lose my job." This is not true, the reality is that this attitude will produce in your life is that others want to control you or anybody teach you how to grow, because what you do to others what crops to yourself.

Imagine if you did not, and will educate you to help the people around you, to learn and the will motivate you to grow and even you gave them tasks that they could perform to the best of your ability (but honestly let them grow), when your boss or the owner of the company has to cover a new position, who do you think is the best?, surely the person who help educate and train others, so that his teammates believe and help would be recognized at the natural leader .

I know that for many it may sound absurd and they will say "you do not know how things move here" or "how can I not control my house or my partner?" You have no idea that this new way of seeing things, this new way of acting towards others but especially for yourself will help you be more effective and grow much more than they have done so today.

I repeat what I say in my workshops: try it for 4 weeks, notes, make a journal and see what happens in your life. Clearly, breaking your comfort zone or your controller pattern is very difficult and you may feel insecure at first and want to return back to what you were doing before, but calm! be patient and I guarantee your life will be much more effective and harmonious.

The question is about who you're starting to have more confidence in your life today? Are you willing to give up control?

GBY

Alfred

Journal

When I was in high school, (huyyyy some years ago), I remember that men and women talk about keeping a journal in which we could be writing the most important event was fun and many girls defended very quietly that no one could see his diary or as some called it his confessional.

I do not remember that place lost this habit, what struck me is that yesterday to receive a review of a publication (www.in-Log.net) and I spent the 25 reasons to keep a diary or journal, I realized that many people like me at some stage in their lives brought this daily practice.

Why is it important to keep a diary?, Beyond all deep and scientific characteristics I read the article (very interesting), I think that your writing in a notebook with a pen your daily Ideas helps you let off steam and reflect as have been your days at the end of each day and in the mornings as you visualize for the coming day.

Right now many of us may think that this could be a waste of time in our busy lives and actually honestly would not know where to start. For this reason I will help you with some tips that I've practiced, to take action and you can use this powerful tool that can change your perception and can really help you measure your life.

Let me tell you something that probably you know, but what we do not realize many times "90% of your life happens at night" what queee?, You read right, 90% of the things we did last week not remember, you do not know which were your moods, clothes you wore or thoughts you had, surprisingly, so when we grow or change is difficult to realize. Now with a Journal (diary or confessional) we can go see our progress or not and we have to learn ourselves to make this life more pleasant and happy place to live.

But how to start?, Get a notebook, do not do it on a device moved or computer, as long as you use a pen and write, in this process thousands of neurons and emotions involved, while on a mobile device or computer only a 15 neurons.

Start the morning with 3 min and respondiendolo asking this in your notebook:

Does a goal for today?

What can I do to help others today?

What are the 5 things that these grateful today?

At night before bed 3 min:

What did you do today that increased value to my life?

What are the most important things today?

What are you happy now?

This is a very effective guide, of course you have to customize it as you like, but for those that cost us a bit of work to start, this guide can help you a lot.

So now the question is when are you going to take action in your life and you will begin to have control of your life?

GBY

Alfred

PD. Journaling is an essential tool of the leading and most effective people in this world.

Value of time

Time?

Normally when I start my workshops first thing I do is thank people for their time. Because for me is the most important asset or assets that we have, is not renewable and if a person gives you what we should appreciate it very much.

Now I will take an example from Michael Roach, also makes perfect sense to me. Some years ago (I) had the opportunity to work in a restaurant where the bread prepared for that people could enjoy freshly baked, it's amazing what happens behind this process so that you can enjoy a delicious biscuit. His creation is huge, if you will add people and the time involved is incredible, from the person processing the flour, butter, who pack, load, all others add to this with different ingredients until container arrives at the bakery, where baker kneading all starts at 5 am after leaves stand, and decorate it arrives at your table, and you enjoy it and you eat it with great taste in just 5 minutes, never imagining that behind.

It's amazing how not appreciate the value of time for each person I spoke. Many say selfish, and why! I paid to have it. That's not the point, because your money can not buy two minutes of anyone's life. I learned several years ago when my second son died, all the money and gold in the world did not help me to buy a second life of my little boy.

Not to be dramatic with this I want to try, first thank you for reading this, and then stir up some awareness and appreciation for the people involved give their time in your life, first you love and surround you, and also those that neither even met, but who gave their time for something that benefits you today.

Today I am grateful for the time of the people involved creating this phone, pc or tablet where I can write.

Thank you very much for your great time and delivered to you for reading this article.

The question is with whom you be grateful for your time today?

GBY

Alfred

Responsibility

Why am I going wrong with me in life?

This is a very common question when we have a series or days that are not what we wanted and things go wrong, often the first thing that comes to mind can be expressions like eg. "Life is not fair" or "because of the government ..." or "If I had been born in another cradle" or "if my boss was ..." All these expressions are a reflection of something that we are going in our lives. Let me tell you something, as I've thought a lot of these things and after a while I thought about it would be very sad not to have control of my own life. That's why I gave myself the task of researching and studying whether we are lying at infinity to the whims of others or at some point we can take control of our lives. And at the end I realize that we create our whole life, our beliefs shape it to what we experienced.

Understanding this requires a fundamental principle HIGH  Responsibility me, where there are six factors that are not negotiable:

One. Stop denying the things that you know that you're creating for your bad habits.

Two. Stop you justify your actions yourself.

Three. Stop blaming others for what you are.

April. Stop playing the victim.

May. Stop giving up your dreams.

If you want to grow up and take control of what I live every day, these six points that I learned from my good friend Blair Singer, must have a clear place in my head.

You create your world, and that world is created by the agreements and beliefs that you have.

I'll give you an example

Who controls your mood?

Many people leave the responsibility for your happiness in the hands of others, and live believing they are happy or angry by what others say or do them. But this is not true! responsibility for your happiness, anger or bitterness is in your hands, you change your mood because you want or what you want, if you apply the above 6 points, you should see your mood as the first not deny yourself that this feeling comes and comes on you, understand that another does not control your life, stop being thinking how to justify that I'm angry, do not say something like "by you or by the I'm angry" (You're angry because you want) , and please do not start saying "is that I do this always happen or neck I will be happy" because only these making you the victim, and finally get up and still fails to stop your dreams without giving up what you deserve.

At the end you create your life and decide to play it as you want, NO ONE ELSE CAN LIVE YOUR LIFE, NO ONE!! At the end of these on your own, or the person you love or the one that you trust you can put your mind and help you, and obviously you either can do it with another, you never know who is really thinking someone else just imagine or suppose (which is exhausting) what others think or believe it is their responsibility not yours.

Take responsibility for your life at work, family, your health, business and money.

If you keep being responsible and watching you when you're not, you will gradually get what you want.

Please see how many years have you not being responsible, and shows the number of years and involves at least 20% of the time (which has not been responsible) at least for now change your life and create what you want to be your's principal actor of what you want to be very responsible.

The question is when will you start being responsible for your life?

GBY

Alfred